
Boudoir photography is an intimate, deeply personal experience. For many, choosing a female boudoir photographer in London feels important. It’s about comfort and stepping into a space where your story and your agency are at the centre.
When photography is created with collaboration and consent it becomes a practice in self-ownership, presence, and confidence. It disrupts the old narratives of boudoir, shifting power back into your hands.
As an award-winning female photographer, I’ve spent years creating portraits that feel artful, respectful, and true to the people I photograph. Here’s why working with a woman can make such a difference and why it may matter for you.
Why Some Clients Choose a Female Boudoir Photographer

Boudoir photography has often been linked to the idea of the “male gaze.” For me, it’s less about gender and more about what the gaze represents. The body treated as something to be looked at, desired, or owned by someone else.
My approach is different. Working with me shifts the perspective. Together, we create images for you, not of you.
You don’t need to hide parts of yourself, whether that’s your sensuality, your softness, or your strength. The experience is about placing those things firmly in your own hands, not someone else’s.
Some of the most common reasons people seek out a female boudoir photographer are:
- Feeling at ease in a private, supportive environment.
- The photographers lived understanding of body image, self-confidence, and the vulnerability of being seen.
- Collaboration. The sense of creating something together, rather than being directed from a distance.

My Perspective as a Female Photographer in London

I know how vulnerable it can feel to step in front of the camera, because I’ve been there too. Like many of my clients, I’ve struggled with body image, and I remember the mix of nerves and anticipation before and during my own first boudoir photoshoot. That experience taught me how much it matters to feel held, understood, and respected.
Now, when I photograph others, I bring that same empathy with me. Technical skill, lighting, posing, styling, is essential, but so is emotional intelligence. The most powerful portraits happen when you feel safe enough to show the many sides of yourself: soft, strong, playful, romantic, or bold.
In 2025, I was honoured with the Client Service Excellence Award at the Greater London Enterprise Awards. This recognition reflects what I care about most: creating portraits where clients feel not only beautiful, but truly cared for throughout the process.
Inside My London Studio

My private boudoir studio in Finsbury Park, North London, is designed to make you feel calm and comfortable from the moment you arrive.
The space is discreet and quiet, with private changing, vintage features, and professional studio lighting that allows me to shape mood and atmosphere for each style.
You set the pace. Bring your playlist, favourite outfits, or simply yourself. I also work with a trusted, female-led team of makeup artists and stylists who are warm, experienced, and always there to make the day feel special.
When Gender Isn’t the Whole Story

For many clients, working with a woman is important. For others, the photographer’s values matter most. I believe it’s not just gender that defines a good boudoir photographer, but the approach. Photographing with a lens of care, collaboration, and consent.
It means your portraits are an act of self-ownership, whether playful, powerful, soft, or strong, they are always yours.
Whether you’re celebrating a milestone, preparing a gift, or simply wanting portraits that feel like art, my role is to create a safe space where you can express yourself fully, without pressure, judgement, or expectation.
For a deeper look at how I approach boudoir photography with care, collaboration, and consent, visit What Makes Me Different.
Ready to Work With a Female Boudoir Photographer in London?
If you’re considering boudoir photography and feel drawn to the idea of working with a female photographer, I’d love to talk.
I specialise in creating empowering, emotionally intelligent portraits for people who don’t always feel at ease in front of the camera. Together, we’ll create images that feel like the best version of you. Artful, timeless, and deeply personal.
Explore the Boudoir Experience on my main page → London boudoir photography
If you’d like to know more about my wider journey as a photographer, from teaching to awards, you can read more on my About Me page → About Siorna Ashby